I can’t say that I’ve been seriously objectified before, but
I have fallen victim to street harassment plenty of times. I don’t know what it
is about guys that think that will get them a chance to talk to girls, but if
someone says anything to me they will usually just get ignored or a snarky
comment back. During tailgating at the LSU vs. Alabama game I had a lot of guys
my age and even old men saying crude comments to me as I walked past. I know
that alcohol had a lot to do with influencing it, but it got a little annoying
and creepy as time when on, especially if I got separated from my friends and
was walking alone. One instance in particular was when I was walking with a
group of my friends and two older men, that had clearly been drinking heavily,
decided to say something as we walked past. I could see it coming as I was
about to walk past them, but I decided to try and ignore them because that
usually works out. I heard one man say “yeah that one that one” so I just
continued to walk with my eyes averted, but once I walked past the other man
said to me “you smell like sex”. I was taken aback by that one because it was
just so strange, was I supposed to be complimented by that? So to that I just
sarcastically said “good one” and kept walking. He looked a little upset that I
didn’t take that comment as a compliment, but honestly that was one of the
strangest things I had ever heard. Even if he would have given me an actual
compliment I still would have ignored him because saying things drunkenly or
sober on the street is creepy and should stop because it won’t get you
anywhere.
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